What happens when our days grow quieter with age? For many older adults, things begin to shift. There might be fewer social plans, more time at home, and less daily activity. Health changes may limit outings, close friends might live far away, and routines can slow down. Some people enjoy the calm, but for others, ... Read More
Samantha’s dad, Walter, had always been a proud, hardworking man. In his seventies, dementia began to cloud his memory. One afternoon, he asked where his mother was. Samantha froze; her grandmother had been gone for more than forty years. She gently told him the truth. Walter’s face fell, his eyes filled with tears, and for ... Read More
Travel season is in full swing, and many of us have made plans to enjoy the peak season in the United States. Everyone deserves to take vacations, and that includes family caregivers of people who are experiencing cognitive decline. Traveling with someone who has dementia can be rewarding, meaningful—and, at times, unpredictable. People who have ... Read More
Maria sat quietly by her father’s bedside, watching his breath grow slower with each passing day. Though he was still there, her heart already felt heavy. She found herself mourning moments: the stories they hadn’t yet told, the hugs that might soon be gone, the future memories that would never be made. This experience is ... Read More
Caring for an aging parent is one of the most meaningful responsibilities many of us will face—and we often don’t do it alone. Across the country, millions of adult siblings are stepping up to care for Mom, Dad, or another aging relative together, whether they live in the same city or are spread across the ... Read More
As more Americans age into their 60s, 70s, and beyond, we’re learning that the experience of growing older is not the same for everyone. Pride Month reminds us that for LGBTQ+ elders, aging can come with an extra layer of complexity—shaped by a lifetime of resilience, but also by decades of discrimination, social stigma, and ... Read More
Being a family caregiver is a rewarding but often stressful role. Balancing the needs of your loved one with your own can be challenging. That’s why caregivers must prioritize self-care. Here are seven practical ways to maintain your mental and physical health with serving as a caregiver. Carve out daily “me time.” Even if it’s ... Read More
Being a family caregiver is a noble and challenging role, often filled with love, dedication, and, unfortunately, legal complexities. People considering becoming a caregiver should know the legal implications. Here are 9 essential tips to help you avoid potential legal problems and understand when to seek professional assistance. Understand the healthcare power of attorney (POA) ... Read More
Thanksgiving is a time when we show appreciation for our blessings and celebrate the bounties of delicious food with loved ones. Science suggests that it would be good for our mental and physical health to extend this practice of thankfulness throughout the year! After dealing with the coronavirus pandemic for more than three years, we ... Read More
According to the CDC, about one in four adults act as informal or unpaid caregivers for someone with a long-term illness or disability. By 2030, approximately 71 million people will be 65 years or older, so the need for caregivers will only increase. There are many different fulfilling benefits to being a caregiver. For example, ... Read More
Abby was my brother’s true hero and champion last week. He was having a rough time with excruciating headaches and was unable to get an accurate diagnosis. Abby recommended that he go to the emergency room and stayed with him all day. It was a very wise suggestion, as they were finally able to give him an accurate diagnosis.
Abby then coordinated additional home care services so that he had extended care over the next week. She also stepped in when a second visit to the emergency room was necessary, ensuring he was not alone during that difficult time. She spent extra time with him after normal business hours and even on the weekend.
I was with my brother and Abby part of the time and saw firsthand how effectively Abby navigated the healthcare system and used her knowledge and professional contacts to ensure that my brother had the support he needed. I could not have done that by myself.
I want to thank Barlowe & Associates for its professional and empathetic support, and Abby in particular for her wise leadership, caring, and around-the-clock assistance.